Stop Feeling Sad for No Reason

Past your short-term melancholy

Victoria Taylor
3 min readDec 9, 2022
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Sadness is one of the most uncomfortable and difficult emotions to experience. When you feel like you have no reason to be unhappy, it can make things even more challenging. Here are some ways to help get rid of those blues sooner rather than later so they don’t take over your life.

Talk to Someone You Trust

If you’re feeling sad for no reason, you should talk to someone you trust. This can be a friend, family member, significant other, or therapist.

  • You might not be able to stop feeling sad immediately, but opening up to someone you trust and letting them know what you’re going through can help.
  • You might not be able to control your feeling sad, but you can control how you handle them and what you do about them.
  • Talking to someone you trust can help you gain a new perspective on this emotion and give you the support you need to get through it.

Get Out of the House

You might not know why you feel sad, but being around people and getting out of the house can help eliminate feelings of sadness. If you can’t get out of the house, make an effort to call someone, send a friend a message online, or even go on a virtual hangout. Getting out of your head and around people can help immensely.

Do Something That Makes You Happy

Sometimes, doing something that makes you happy can help lift your mood and make you feel better. It may be hard at first, but eventually, you’ll start to feel better.

Practice Loving-Kindness Meditation

Humans are social creatures, but it might be extremely difficult to be around others when you feel sad for no reason. When you feel this way, try to engage in loving-kindness meditation.

  • This meditation can help you be more compassionate to yourself and can help you feel more connected to the people in your life.
  • It can help you feel less alone and more connected to others, which can be incredibly helpful when you’re feeling sad for no reason.
  • This meditation can help you be more self-compassionate and can help you let go of whatever sadness you’re feeling.
  • It can help you return to being your usual and confident self again.

Take Care of Yourself

Put yourself first by making sure you have time to relax and unwind. You can do this by taking a bath, playing your favorite leisurely video game, reading a book, getting a massage, meditation, or a CBT audio session in the Sensera app. This can help you feel less sad.

Exercise and Eat Healthy

  1. Exercise is a great way to lift your mood and be good for your mental and physical health. When you exercise, your brain releases endorphins, chemicals that make you happy.
  2. Eating healthy is also a great way to lift your mood. Research has shown that there is a direct relationship between diet and mood. If you’re eating a poor diet, you are more likely to experience depression.

Do Something That Scares You

Doing something that scares you forces you to divert your attention to the task at hand and forget the things that make you feel depressed.

Get a Little Darkness

Contrary to what many believe, the absence of light doesn’t always bring out the best in people. There are many benefits to spending a few hours in complete darkness, especially if you’re feeling sad.

Find Out What’s Really Going On

If you don’t have reason to feel sad, you will likely have tried many ways to lift your mood, but nothing has worked for you. This could be for many reasons. For instance, you may have recently lost someone close to you or suffer from a disorder you don’t know yet. Depression is very common, so if you feel sad and don’t know why, it’s worth paying a visit to a doctor or seeking out the help of a psychologist.

Conclusion

When you’re feeling sad for no reason, it can be incredibly challenging and confusing. But you don’t have to let these feelings take over your life. You can do many things to help get rid of the sadness.

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Victoria Taylor

I'm working to manage my low self-esteem and ongoing anxiety. Wanna assist others. My self-therapy app: https://sensera.app